None taken...since I'm not an old or ugly bear. Sadly, they tend to haunt any place you go; it's just part of the experience. My experience has been that Flex has a good mix...even guys that meet my tough standards. :-)
Yeah check it out man. One of the best in LA. Unlike most, it has a pool, which I think is heated. Great outdoor area, so it's a great place to sun in the buff when the weather's nice. Check it out on a Sunday afternoon. They serve some damned good BBQ.